Understanding Hurt, Bitterness, Injustice and Pain Read the Article!
This is a part of a series of articles with questions, which will help us understand our emotions and how we can free ourselves from unwanted ones.
Written by Robert Najemy

DON'T BAIL OUT OF MARRIAGE TOO SOON Read the Article!
Feel like getting a divorce? Forget about it. A new study shows that splitting up won't necessarily make you happier, that you have a better chance of being happy if you stay with your lousy, good-for-nothing spouse.
Written by Melvin Durai

Aromas to Heal a Broken Heart Read the Article!
To heal it takes time, self-care, and conscious processing of your emotions. It is vital that you allow this healing process to occur, and take advantage of the situation to treat yourself with gentleness and nurturing.
Written by Francoise Rapp

How To Divorce Like You Are Buying A TV Read the Article!
75% of all US and 50% of all Canadian marriages end in divorce. Divorce is rated number two on the scale of the most life altering stressors.
Written by Liz Wertman

Minimize The Waves of Divorce Read the Article!
Because they were born into a loving family, children take for granted that it will last forever. They go about their lives thriving on the love from both their parents. Then reality sets in - a divorce divides the two most important people in their lives.
Written by Liz Wertman

Is it Romantic Armageddon, or just Uncomfortable Shoes? 13 Warning Signs You're About To Get Dumped! Read the Article!
Want to know if your relationship is about to hit the skids? Looking for tell-tale signs that your love will last through next week? Well, look no further. Below you'll find the "Unlucky 13" -13 warning signs you're about to get dumped.
Written by Lisa Daily

Choices That Create The Person You Are Read the Article!
In the end, we all must be accountable for ourselves. When we make the decision to divorce, we realize that we have not been true to ourselves. We have been going through the motions of life, but it's not the life we want.
Written by Liz Wertman

What Are We Looking For? Read the Article!
We crave love so much that when we are denied it we turn against ourselves thinking, “I’m not worthy of loving.” We must realize that the first place we have to turn to receive the love we need is within ourselves. We must accept that everyone is worthy of love.
Written by Liz Wertman

Dealing with Emotional Pain Read the Article!
We feel emotional pain when we do not get what we want, need, or expect. We might feel hurt, rejection, bitterness, abuse, injustice or simply emotional pain.
Written by Robert Elias Najemy

Simple Arithmetic Read the Article!
Five years ago I met Mr. X while traveling to work, and we became friends. At first he did not tell me he was married. A friend told me. When I questioned him, he admitted it, saying they were separated. I was also told the wife keeps coming and going in his life.
Written by Wayne and Tamara Mitchell

A Spoonful Of Sugar Read the Article!
Today he said, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you." I still love him and want to be with him. I want to repair our marriage, but I'm scared. Maybe we should separate since we've tried to make it work and failed so many times.
Written by Wayne and Tamara Mitchell

Band of Gold Read the Article!
I am separated and in the process of getting a divorce. I have a silly question. When do you stop wearing your wedding ring?
Written by Wayne and Tamara Mitchell

Taking Leave Read the Article!
It definitely takes two to make a relationship work, but only one to end it. I have often enjoyed your columns, although for a time after my divorce, I tried skipping them feeling that I had failed at marriage. After a marriage of 26 years, my ex-husband fell in love with someone else.
Written by Wayne and Tamara Mitchell

A Bed Of Nails Read the Article!
When I was in my early 20s, I was deeply and utterly in love, and I married a wonderful person. After 11 years and two children, I found out my wife had an ongoing relationship with another man.
Written by Wayne and Tamara Mitchell

Better Left Unsaid Read the Article!
On September 11th we all shared a terrible event in our lives. For me it was twofold. I thought I was happily married up until that day.
Written by Wayne and Tamara Mitchell

Growing Up Read the Article!
I snooped and learned about another girl my boyfriend was talking to, which he denied. My boyfriend is furious. He says I ruined our chances of ever getting back together. How do I fix this? Our baby will be here soon.
Written by Wayne and Tamara Mitchell

The Dumped! Break-up Survival Guide Read the Article!
You've been dumped. So, other than moping around in your pajamas, spending quality time with Ben & Jerry, what can you do? Well, clear away that mountain of soggy tissues, and I'll tell you how to get through the worst of it, the first 30 days.
Written by Lisa Daily

Selling Skills = Dating Success Read the Article!
I was deeply in love with a woman who said she was deeply in loved with me. I wanted to marry her and have kids with her after only being together for 3 months. She said that she was also read to settle down. After a couple of months and some power play games (man vs. woman - i.e. control issues). I began to take things more seriously and start making arrangements to marry her. She in the mean time started to lose interest in me. Twice, she wanted to brake up with me, but reluctantly agreed not to after some persuasion.
Written by Dr. Dennis W. Neder

The Devil You Don't Know Read the Article!
When you are in a marriage that is not working well, and you don't do anything about it, you are on a plateau. Depending on your personality and how insecure you are, you might stay on that plateau for a few months, a few years or longer because getting off is a scary event.
Written by Liz Wertman

Divorcing Seniors Read the Article!
The majority of people who divorce have been married from one month to 15 years. This seems to be the time when people who are disillusioned with marriage decide to call it quits. We focus on these individuals because they have young children and we are concerned for their personal and financial well-being. Now there seems to be another age group interested in going their separate ways. Men and women who have been married 25 years or more are now deciding to divorce.
Written by Liz Wertman

Discrimination Of The Sexes Read the Article!
After divorce proceedings have begun, many find themselves so bitter that they "hate" the opposite sex. They gravitate towards others that feel the same way, gaining strength in numbers. Why did these people become women or men "haters?" This is discrimination.
Written by Liz Wertman

Break-Up Survival Guide Read the Article!
Losing a loved one is never easy. Even when the loss is your choice, it isn't easy. Whether a person experiences a break up of a relationship, a death of a loved one, or another powerful loss, there are predictable stages one goes through, predictable feelings one feels.
Written by Rinatta Paries

Divorce From Your Friends Read the Article!
When we are younger we adapt easily to change. We bounce back from pitfalls, recover from personal and financial losses, barely skipping a beat. The security of youth is in youth itself. We have very little to lose and everything to gain.
Written by Liz Wertman

Live With Love Read the Article!
Our children mean everything to us. We want the very best the world has to offer for them. Our job is to nurture their minds and bodies, to guide their souls. This is the job of every parent! This was the job of your parents!
Written by Liz Wertman

If You Divorce You Will Have To Plant The Seeds Read the Article!
If you're considering divorce you are not alone. There comes a time in most marriages when the decision to stay together or divorce must be made. There are valid and statistical reasons for this as well as personal.
Written by Liz Wertman